Many people have an idea, art, or something of importance they want to release to the world—a film script, a community design, a personal creation, and any of an endless list of endeavors.
The problem is that oftentimes the creator is scared to death of how it will be received:
- “Will people think it’s stupid?”
- “Will it be ignored?”
- “Will I be made fun of?”
If we’re not able to overcome these fears, the contribution that is important to us will never be seen or heard and will never have the opportunity to make an impact on someone else’s life. That is tragic!
Recently my two band members and I released our first EP on Spotify.
I learned a number of lessons in the process:
- It happened because it was something important to the core of who we are—an expression of our true identity (the subject of a chapter in my forthcoming book!).
- It can’t be done alone! It took the initiative of Amy, our singer-songwriter, to push forward the process that the rest of us wouldn’t have done.
- It took effort. Performing is fun, but all-day recording sessions—and the months of practice leading up to them—are exacting and tiring.
- Exposing our music to the world felt vulnerable. What if no one cared? What if it was rejected or compared to something else they liked better?
- Putting it out there was exciting! Exhilarating, in fact! Deep down everyone wants to be seen and heard, especially about stuff that is important to them.
- It takes risk to allow what we create to be appreciated and applauded.
- Doing it the first time creates confidence to do it again!
- I’m scared and excited about experiencing the same thing with the release of my upcoming book.
The responses I received were wonderful:
- “Wow, amazing!!!!!!!”
- “Just tuned in. Beautiful”
- “I believe what you are doing is so Holy Spirit led”
- “It sounded super professional and well done”
I was especially delighted by the interest and excitement of the ladies playing it at my daughter’s yoga class!
These responses made all the risks worthwhile. And I realized that our music made a bigger impact than I expected.
I know doing something like this feels scary and daunting. But it’s worth it to get your unique contribution “out there”—both for yourself and for others.
What’s the important, creative work you want to offer the world?
This got me thinking….what do I have that I can offer the world? Surely I must have something somebody can use. Maybe I should canvas my friends or relatives to ask them what they think.
That’s exactly the way to do it, Pam. Ask your community to comment on what it is about you that is the most effective in their life. I’d love to hear what they say!
I want to get a book for writers into the world!
You are certainly helping me do that with my book, Chad! Thank you!
Doug, I appreciate all your support and encouragement in launching process groups! It was scary to take the risk but it worked out and was worth it!
Your welcome, Lonnie! It WAS worth it and enjoyable doing it together!
I made it into your blog!! I’m learning the root of most anxiety is the anticipation of lost connection. So it makes sense that the antedote is vulnerable accepted connection! Thanks for sharing Dad!!
Yes, exactly, Rachael. Well said: antedote=vulnerable accepted connection. How true. I’m learning that more and more.
Thank you for reading and responding!
Thanks for sharing Doug. I can so relate to the longing to be seen and heard… And also the fear of being ignored or criticized. Congrats on the great EP!!
Thank you, Messed up Cindy!!! (I wish I could include a heart emoji! :-)) I could also sense and relate to your longing and fear.
Thank you for your congrats! We are going to play at the AC Fellowship Hall on Saturday, May 20, from 7 to 9, if you want to hear us!
Beautiful music! And even if it doesn’t meet someone else’s standards, as you all progress together, despite the vulnerability, what a joy to harmonize and synchronize together!
Thank you!!! Gret! It is a joy. Harmonizing, and synchronizing each week together at practice is a weekly highlight for me.
Dad!! Now I’m famous! I made it in your post!!! You speak the truth!! I like it!
You are Rachael!!! Thank you for the encouraging comment! I like it! ;-)!